Fun says, "A Fake Love."

Recently, I've read up a little bit of human psychology. I found out that human beings are only motivated by two factors, 1) towards pleasure, 2) away from pain. Anything else is totally uncapable of motivating human to do anything.

Thinking through my own life and all the actions I've made, none of them is not motivated by any of these 2. Therefore, I come to a conclusion, there's no such thing as love. Or is there?

Well, there actually is love. True love occurs in only one condition. When no pleasure or pain is involved. However, is there such a condition? I have no idea. Maybe my study ahead of me will give me an answer to this...

Fun says, "Isn't there enough of hatred like racism, sexism, ageism, classism, religious intolerance, etc, etc?"

It still baffles me despite such behaviour is accepted to be bad for our health and the society in general. Yet people still do embrace such STUPID behaviour thinking that they are in for lots of fun and happiness...

And they cause all sorts of problems, with the minor ones such as shouting matches...and the serious one...world war...

Haiz...

Enough of hating, my dear friends. It's time to LOVE!!!
L.O.V.E. LOVE!

Fun says, "Why hate if we can love more?"

Why hurt each other if we can make each other happier?
Why be upset if we can be happy?
Why suffer if we can enjoy?
Why steal and rob if we can ask for it?
Why hoard if we have so much to give?
Why be selfish if we can all share?

Love is the only key to happiness and world peace. Love more. Don't hate! LOVE MORE!!!

Fun says, "Learning to love..."

Though it was decreed that we were never meant to be,
Yet, there seem to be so numerous,
The coincidences that continuously giving me hope,
Hope to somehow win your heart.

Is this a torture?
For giving me hope, yet unable to get it?
No, it isn't.

It is a test. A training.
To teach me how to love.
To love HaShem like my lover.
And to love all the people around me.
To love not only the girl I'm totally infatuated with.

For I have learned,
Thus I will still love as I have loved,
But I will love more,
Not only you, but HaShem and all His creation as well.

Fun says, "The ability to see complexity in the simplest and simplicity in the most complex is only available to those who seek."

Many things are so complex and yet they are very simple such as life and love. And when we've search thoroughly, seeking meaning to these things, then only will we be opened to the great wisdom and understanding behind them.

范は言い:"宇多田ヒカルのFirst Love:'今はまだ悲しい love song, 新しい歌 歌えるまで.'"

Fun says, "Utada Hikaru's First Love, 'It's still a sad love song, until I can sing a new one'"

Though I know we were never meant to be, I still love you as much. Though it hurts like hell and shit, I still want to give it a try...

It's just like SISSEL's Summer Snow:
It's summer snow in the deep blue sea,
I try to touch but it fades away,
It must be a dream I will never get,
Just like my love that's crying for you.

范说:"有人说:'爱一个不爱你的人,为什么不爱一个爱你的人?'"

Fun says, "Someone said, 'Instead of loving someone who doesn't love you, why don't you love someone who loves you?'"

范回答说:"原因是找不到一个爱我的人,所以我只可以默默地爱一个不爱我的人."
Fun replies saying, "The reason is I can't find some who loves me, so I can only silently love someone who doesn't love me."

Fun says, "Air Supply's All Out of Love, 'I wish I could carry your smile and my heart.'"

Quote from Air Supply's All Out of Love:
I wish I could carry your smile in my heart
For times when my life feels so low
It would make me believe what tomorrow could bring
When today doesn't really know, doesn't really know

If I really do not know today and tomorrow,
I'd be more than happy to carry your sweet smile,
To remember the ups and downs that we've shared together,
To fall madly in love with you,
To give you all the love that I can find.

But,
Tomorrow being shown to me,
That we were never meant to be,
That it's destined to be tears and sadness,
How can I bear to love you more,
Knowing that I'll lose you for sure?

Should I hold on to what I've got,
Because of the joy that I've received?
Or should I let go quickly,
To spare myself of the agony?
Or should I act like I never know today and tomorrow,
And continue to love you as I did,
And only worry about being sad when I lose you?

I felt like a patient with a terminal disease,
Knowing that the end is just around the corner,
Wanting to love and to have you by my side,
Yet, I couldn't bear to lose it all,
When the time finally comes.

What a great dilemma I've got...

Fun says, “Patti Smith's Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough, ‘Baby, sometimes, love just ain’t enough.’”

Throughout our lives, we fall in love and we fall out of love. Some are sweet and some are bitter. And we soon learn that it takes more than love to maintain a relationship. Be it bitter or sweet, at the very least, we know we truly loved and may it all become beautiful, though not sweet, memories. May all find happiness in love.

Fun says, "Love is giving. Love itself is happiness, even without owning."

Recently, I have learned to love. Love is all about giving, about giving the best of all you have to the ones you love. Simply by loving, you get happiness. Though you might not have your beloved beside you, though your beloved might not love you in return, your constant giving without asking for return is happiness. You don’t have to own the ones you love to be happy. You just need to see them happy. Then you are happy.

Just like I am happy seeing that you are happy...